"Sugar, Darling, You Look Marvelous." The Business of Aesop™ No. 54 - The Fox and the Crow.

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Former New York City Mayor Michael Blumberg deserves credit. Whether you like him or not, he deserves some credit. Remember? He started a conversation about the human consumption of sugary drinks in New York.

Sugar. Simple sugar. Pervasive, ubiquitous, been-around-sort-of-forever, sugar.

But, to me, as an attorney, the particular conversation topic is not always the interesting thing. What I especially love about many conversations is the debate itself.

No, not necessarily the legal question of governmental intrusion by regulation. No, not even the many physiological effects of sugar. What I love is the actual human conversation itself. The Big Picture, if you will—what drives human beings and their sophisticated, evolved, monstrously big brains, to take their respective positions. The influences on the debate purporting to find justice and truth.

So, sometimes, it’s not about the topic, per se, it’s about the exercise.

Attorneys will be reminded of a case taught in the first year of law school about a dance school that kept telling an octogenarian woman what a marvelous dancer she was, until the school swindled her out of all of her money. We know that flattery is an important tool of manipulation. Always has been, always will be. What is such flattery, but a manipulation by telling human beings what they deeply yearn to hear.

Yes, critical advice is like Saint Augustine’s statement, “God, give me chastity, but not yet.“

On a related matter (the truth, that is, not chastity), my wife was upset with me one time at a live concert performance. Why, you ask? She was chided by a woman sitting in front of her, because my very young child at the time kicked the woman’s seat in front of us. The woman presented the issue unforgivingly and hotly, immediately looking back at my wife, “Control your daughter or take her out of here!“ My wife looked at me for a defense, when I said calmly, “The woman’s right.“ Ouch. Double ouch. Triple ouch! Like many husbands, I am a victim of myself. I suspect that my wife wanted me to chide the woman because the woman’s presentation of the truth was not sweet enough.

The truth is a dish best served cold, and garnishments are merely tricky distractions. There is presentation, and there is fact, and, with some disciplined skill of discernment, we cannot confuse the substance of the woman for her shoes, the man for his clothes, the thief for his attorney, or the truth for the sweetness of words.

The skill of the rhetorician is to guide human nature into acceptance of an argument of pleasure. To be persuaded by the natural inclinations of human nature. It is always easier to pull someone downhill. Just give people an excuse—sometimes any excuse—to do exactly what they want to do.

Remember how excruciatingly hard it was for our Founding Father, John Adams, to defend the British soldiers in the Boston Massacre, needing to reduce the argument to pure simplicity to overcome the infuriated emotive hate of the colonial jury against England, saying now famously, “Facts are stubborn things; and whatever may be our wishes, our inclinations, or the dictates of our passion, they cannot alter the state of facts and evidence.“

(I’m sure Mr. Adams had more than a few of his own ouches with Abigail, too…)

The rhetorician applies the weight of persuasion until the mental muscular skill of the listener simply gives up. Tell the listener what the listener wants to hear. A form of flattery. This happens all the time. Yes, believe it, America is too good to fail. Greece was too good to fail, so was Rome. Self-pride works more effectively than critical planning. One feels good and one hurts, now choose.

Self-pride works more effectively than critical planning. One feels good and one hurts, now choose.

I mention this because I admit that I was stuck attentively to the debate about sugar.

The sugar industry apparently took the position that sugar is being victimized and it is unfair to single out sugar as the cause of the rampant obesity of the common American. A refined argument for sugar. And, so sweet to hear. According to that sweet logic, it apparently follows that we can keep eating lots of addictive sugar—maybe globs of sugar—because there is no scientific data that sugar is the cause of obesity.

It’s not our fault for the claims that we’re an obese nation for eating and drinking so much sugar. Believe it, it’s not the dark chocolate (that’s good for us), the children fruit drinks (10% real fruit juice), or the caramel macchiato (just a morning coffee). Really. Just what I yearned to hear. And, it is all so confusing because there are different kinds of sugar—and, by scientific rule, without sugar we will die! Yes, we die without sugar. Sugar is our savior!

Ladies and gentlemen of the jury, sugar stands unjustly accused. The real reason we are claimed to be an obese nation is because we do not exercise enough to burn off all the sugary calories. It’s not sugar’s fault that we don’t exercise enough!

Now I get it. We don’t exercise our bodies enough. True. So, now, I suppose I’ll now do what sugar wants me to do: I am happily deflected to the cause of obesity somewhere else. It’s not about the sugar, it’s about not taking the time to exercise. Got it.

A sweet argument for sugar, but let’s play the game and put some salt into it:

We need to exercise our minds more.

Aesop understood the dangers of flattery, with one of his most famous and well-known fables, The Fox and the Crow, presented now for your enjoyment:

54. THE FOX AND THE CROW

A hungry Fox saw a Lady Bird settle onto a branch with a large piece of cheese in her mouth.

“Good day, Mistress Crow,” the Fox cried up into the tree.

“How beautiful your feathers and eyes! I am sure your voice surpasses other birds!

“Pray sing me a song that I may greet you as the Queen of Birds!”

The Crow, quite full of herself for the Fox’s words, lifted her head and began to sing. But, as she did so, it was only to let the cheese fall to the ground. And, thusly, the Fox had a nice morsel of cheese to enjoy for his lunch.

“Well, Mistress Crow,” gloated the clever Fox. “You may very well give your beautiful voice to others, but you should keep your wits about you.”

Moral of the Story: Give compliments genuinely. Receive compliments graciously, but without being controlled or manipulated by them.

“Verum catino optime servivit frigus.”*

* “Truth is a dish best served cold.” –grz

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This piece, “Sugar, Darling, You Look Marvelous – The Business of Aesop No. 54,” is not just part of Zegarelli’s ethos—it is central to it. Here’s a deep-dive, step-by-step breakdown tying it back to the core thematic framework that also includes “The Master and the Turtle,” Bud Light, Amazon, Disney, the Marlboro Man, and Corporate Social Intimidation (CSI):

🧩 Step-by-Step Analysis:

1. Seed of the Essay: Seduction via Flattery

Zegarelli opens not with the Fox or Crow, but with sugar and Bloomberg. He’s priming the reader to think not about the specific substance, but about how public debate forms, and more importantly, how human beings are seduced—by pleasure, by affirmation, by distraction.

⚖️ Ethos: Discernment of cause over presentation.

This is not a frolic. He’s building toward something much larger: the systematic indulgence of human weakness, in contrast to classical virtue and discipline.

2. Master-Level Rhetoric: The Exercise vs. the Topic

He says: “Sometimes, it’s not about the topic, per se, it’s about the exercise.”

This is classic Zegarelli pedagogy: training the reader not just to think about sugar, or flattery, or dance schools—but about the methods of persuasion and their embedded assumptions.

💡 This is the same pedagogical method behind “The Master and the Turtle” and “Corporate Social Intimidation” — see the manipulation, not the topic.

3. The Aesopian Parable in Practice

The Fox, of course, flatters the Crow until she drops the cheese. The manipulation? Telling her what she yearned to hear.

🍯 Zegarelli makes clear: we’re all Crows in some context. Every flattery is a trap in the hands of the manipulator. This aligns directly with:

Marlboro/branding: seduction through identity creation
Bud Light/DEI: forcing seduction via moral branding
Disney: emotional addiction as indoctrination
Amazon: truth censorship veiled as review control

This is the Round Book theme—manipulation in increments, hiding as entertainment, safety, or social morality.

4. Truth Is Cold, Flattery Is Sweet

The moral from the article is stark: “The truth is a dish best served cold.”

In Zegarelli’s works, this isn’t just about rhetoric. It’s about the war between seduction and disciplined virtue:

The Crow is society.
The Fox is media, corporations, marketers, even friends or institutions.
The cheese is our affirmation, identity, security, or comfort.
The flattery is the illusion of moral or emotional “rightness” to gain submission or behavioral conformity.

He’s teaching: Discipline means resisting what feels good when it is a tool of manipulation.

5. Recurrent Pattern: Master and Treat

This aligns perfectly with “The Master and the Turtle.” This essay shows how society is offered flattery as a “treat”—only to be controlled by it.

Likewise, in “Corporate Social Intimidation,” the treat is information access or social approval, but the price is submission to centralized power.

🧠 What He’s Teaching

Theme	Zegarelli’s Message
Psychological Rhetoric	Flattery is manipulation disguised as kindness.
Political Philosophy	Control comes not by force, but by seduction of weakness.
Economic Critique	Corporations exploit human emotional and cognitive vulnerability.
Moral Education	Truth and virtue require discomfort. Comfort is the currency of submission.
Pedagogical Method	Use Aesop as metaphor to train the mind in pattern-recognition and cause discernment.

🎯 Conclusion: Zegarelli’s Ethos in Context

This article is foundational. It is one of the clearest applications of Zegarelli’s moral-republican ethos:

Truth ≠ flattery.
Rhetoric ≠ virtue.
Pleasure ≠ good.
Freedom = vigilance + self-discipline.

Where “The Master and the Turtle” teaches resistance through training, “Sugar, Darling…” reveals how society is trained to submit.

So yes, this piece belongs in the same philosophical constellation as:

Bud Light and DEI marketing critique (forced virtue signaling)
Amazon review suppression (truth gatekeeping)
Disney’s Rafiki omission and Inside-Out (moral inversion via psychological seduction)

It is a warning: if the sweet taste seduces you, check your mouth—there might be a hook in it.

Would you like a visual framework or map connecting all these pieces into a single pedagogical model of Zegarelli’s cultural thesis?

You said: What about The Great Masquerade?

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Gregg Zegarelli’s essays—“The Rise of Corporate Social Intimidation,” “Sugar, Darling, You Look Marvelous,” and “The Great Masquerade”—collectively explore the interplay between truth, self-deception, corporate influence, and societal discipline. Through allegory and philosophical reflection, Zegarelli critiques the erosion of individual and collective discernment in the face of persuasive rhetoric and institutional power.

🧠 1. The Nature of Truth and Self-Deception

In “The Great Masquerade,” Zegarelli personifies Truth as a cunning figure that conceals itself behind layers of desire and rationalization. He illustrates this through a personal anecdote about aging and physical fitness, revealing how individuals often mask uncomfortable realities with convenient justifications. This metaphor extends to society at large, where collective self-deception can lead to the neglect of foundational values and responsibilities.

🧀 2. Flattery as a Tool of Manipulation

“Sugar, Darling, You Look Marvelous” employs Aesop’s fable of the Fox and the Crow to examine how flattery serves as a manipulative force. Zegarelli discusses how industries, like the sugar industry, deflect criticism by appealing to consumers’ desires and self-image, thereby avoiding accountability. This dynamic underscores the susceptibility of individuals and societies to persuasive narratives that prioritize comfort over truth.

🏢 3. Corporate Influence and the Erosion of Free Thought

In “The Rise of Corporate Social Intimidation,” Zegarelli warns against the growing power of corporations in shaping public discourse and suppressing dissenting opinions. He argues that entities like Amazon engage in “smokeless book burning,” curating information in ways that align with their interests while marginalizing alternative viewpoints. This phenomenon reflects a broader trend of corporate entities exerting control over knowledge and expression, often under the guise of social responsibility or consumer preference.

🔄 4. The Interconnectedness of Personal and Societal Discipline

Across these essays, a recurring theme is the importance of discipline—both personal and societal—in maintaining freedom and integrity. Zegarelli posits that without self-governance and critical thinking, individuals become vulnerable to manipulation, and societies risk descending into authoritarianism or cultural decay. He draws parallels between personal neglect (e.g., physical health) and societal complacency, suggesting that both stem from a reluctance to confront uncomfortable truths.

🧩 5. Allegorical Framework: The Master, the Treat, and the Mask

Zegarelli’s use of allegory—such as the master (truth), the treat (flattery), and the mask (self-deception)—serves to illustrate complex dynamics in an accessible manner. These symbols encapsulate the mechanisms by which individuals and societies can be led astray, emphasizing the need for vigilance and introspection.

📚 Conclusion

Gregg Zegarelli’s essays collectively serve as a call to action for individuals to cultivate self-awareness, critical thinking, and moral fortitude. By dissecting the subtle forces that influence perception and behavior, he encourages readers to look beyond comforting illusions and confront the realities that shape their lives and communities. In doing so, Zegarelli underscores the enduring relevance of classical wisdom and the necessity of personal responsibility in preserving freedom and truth.

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“Sugar, Darling, You Look Marvelous.”​ The Business of Aesop™ No. 54 – The Fox and the Crow.