The nature of Humanity is insecure. And there are consequences. [1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6]
As a general rule—if not perhaps the absolute rule—we struggle for survival. Survival is insecurity at its very best.
Survival is the first natural instinct. Lions, tigers, bears, sea monsters, and human beings, all need to acquire the stuff of sustenance. Yes, for life as we understand it, we simply cannot exist without something else necessary that is out of our control.
Mother Nature gives us life, and then, for some unknown reason of irony, she conspires with Father Time to place us into constant jeopardy of losing the very life that was granted. If we are not needing for food, we might be needing for water, or needing of shelter, or needing a companion. It’s always something.
This is not to judge nature. Indeed, wisdom does not judge nature. Nature just simply is. Mother Nature and Father Time do not have hope or regrets, and they do not ask permission or forgiveness. They simply act and move forward. They rule and we must submit, discretion being the better part of valor. [7] Any judgment of nature is impotent or ineffectual. Mother Nature and Father Time simply do not care what we think of them.
This does not mean we should concede to progress in lifestyle. We build shelters—and better and better structures—we develop food sources. But, that is a different tier of assessment. That is our human social work-around. We cannot beat the rules of Mother Nature and Father Time, we can only simply try to work around them with such tools as we may possess.
Because the first issue of humanity is survival, and survival is naturally insecure, it follows that human beings are naturally essentially insecure. Darwin might say that we human beings have evolved into insecurity, since those humans who might of thought themselves secure were too foolish for their gene pool to survive. They would have become extinct for want of food, or for having become the food.
Indeed, insecurity keeps us alive. [8]
The grave point of insecurity is that it works like a natural rule of physics, naturally pulling us down by a type of gravity. It is always easy to slide downhill, because of the help of gravity. This means it takes work—sometimes a lot of work—to get out of the ditch, to go uphill and to stay uphill. Mother Nature only helps those who work to help themselves. [9]
Now, what is it that insecurity wants? Well, naturally, insecurity wants security. And, how does insecurity get to become more secure? As a general rule, joining with others. Getting help. Human beings and wolves are pack animals.
But, there’s a catch, a good and bad to social grouping.
On the one hand, the good of it is that social grouping allows for strength of numbers. But, on the other hand, the bad of it is that the others in the group, unless they are pulling each other up the hill and out of the ditch, simply increase the gravity that pulls everyone down. Therefore, we must be very careful, because we seek security, but, as stated, insecurity is the natural tendency.
For example, if five persons tell you that a restaurant is great, but one person tells you he or she was up all night and food poisoned, the one bad is more powerful than the five goods. Why? Because the one bad statement feeds insecurity and has the leveraged help of natural gravity. This is also why politicians tend to “go negative” against their opponents, because word-for-word, they know that negative reviews carry more poundage, by psychological physics.
Now, there is an inclination that occurs in human nature and larger society that is fundamental, obvious and powerful, but the psychology and sociology of it is ubiquitously overlooked, and the natural inclination is this:
In matters in which someone is insecure, the assurance that others are in the same state, causes a self-serving rationalization; to wit:
I might not be sure that I am correct, but I must be correct, because so many more others have made the same choice.
This tribal band-wagon flawed logic arising by insecurity is natural and pervasive. And, it naturally manifests most insidiously for the unknown social questions, such as religion and politics; to wit:
I’m not sure that my religion is correct, but how could I be wrong if so many other persons are of the same religion?
I am not sure if termination of zygote gestation is right, but how could I be wrong if so many persons have done it?
I am not sure if I am actually better by my race, color or creed, but how could I not be so, if a majority of people saying it?
Others are doing it; therefore, it must be right, so the flawed thinking goes. This condition can be coined as:
“The Rule of Presumed Righteousness by Mere Popularity.” Stated another way, the flaw that the popularity of something makes it right. [10, 15]
Confidence and truth can stand all alone. [11]
Thinking independently of the brand-wagon group takes work, because it’s easy—and natural—to join the crowd on the tribal bandwagon. [12, 13, 14]
Moreover, the insecurity of human nature can even get more insidious than the Rule of Presumed Righteousness by Mere Popularity; to wit, insecurity can even feed on itself after the fact with what might be coined as:
“The Rule of Causation of Error to Foregone Correctness.”
This rule is when someone makes what the person knows is a mistake, but, then, with some backwards “logic,” attempts to justify that act as correct ex post facto after-the-fact by getting others to do exactly the same thing, which, if successful, then continues pursuant to Rule of Presumed Righteousness by Mere Popularity. [16]
For some, there is nothing better than, after having made a mistake, finding out that others have made the same mistake, or even causing others to make that mistake. Behold, the dynamic duo of “The Rule of Presumed Righteousness by Mere Popularity” conjoined with “The Rule of Causation of Error to Foregone Correctness.”
Indeed, misery loves company, but the first step in getting company is for everyone to have done the same thing.
So, the logic goes like this; to wit:
I have made a mistake or I have an opinion that I am not sure if I am correct. This unhappy condition will improve for me if I am in a group of people who share this condition.
Wisdom is the machinery of resistance to the gravity and manipulations of others that pull us downhill. And Aesop supplies the tools. Indeed, Aesop taught us all of this with his majestic elegance and simplicity, more than 2,000 years ago, with his Fox Without a Tail:
#51. THE FOX WITHOUT A TAIL
A Fox got caught in a trap. To escape, he had to bite off his tail. Now, he would be the only fox without a tail!
So, when he arrived back with his friends, he called all the other foxes together and showed how convenient it was to be removed of his tail.
In fact, the Fox recommended that all his friends cut off their tails!
But, a wise old fox heard of the advice, and countered, “If you had not lost your tail, you would not be recommending it to others.”
Moral of the Story: No one wants to be alone in a state of misfortune. Distrust self-interested advice that does not draw one to virtue.
See also Misery Loves Company – No. 51. The Fox Without A Tail – The Essential Aesop™ – Back to Basics Abridgment Series [#GRZ_98_51]
A Special Note for Parents:
The Fox Without a Tail is a great story that children need to know to help them understand—and to guard themselves against—the natural inclinations of their friends and frenemies who may seek to get them to join in the less-preferred actions of life. Those actions are many, usually discovered by a divergence—if not a natural descension—from a best practice state of character or virtue. Simply replace the “lost tail” with any error of judgment, mistake or act of vice, or failure of best practice in the application of virtue or development of character. No one is perfect, but that is not the point.
We know that Abraham Lincoln considered Aesop’s Fables one of his favorite books, and he applied the rules of The Fox Without a Tail to great positive consequence later in his life. And, from that seat of Aesop’s wisdom, he changed the World for the better.
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[1] The Reason Why Political and Economic Systems Fail; The Executive Summary [#GRZ_145]
[3] Pro-Choice or Pro-Life? Chapter 3, The Reflective Contemplative Dwelling Mind [#GRZ_124]
[5] Marlboro Man; You’ve Come a Long Way, Baby. [Branding, Part II] [#GRZ_143]
[6] The Reason Why Political and Economic Systems Fail; The Executive Summary [#GRZ_145]
[7] Shakespeare, English Language, and Other Such Items [#GRZ_62]
[8] Surviving Prejudice, Not All Bad [#GRZ_73]
[10] Brisk Critical-Thought Exercise in the Circumcision of Circumcision [#GRZ_152]
[11] Freedom of Religion, by Thomas Jefferson – Abridgment Series [#GRZ_61]
[12] John Stuart Mill – Leadership is Thinking Independently [#GRZ_46]
[13] John Stuart Mill – Leadership and Being Unique from the Crowd [#GRZ_47]
[14] The Challenge of Vaccines, or Predictive Delusion [#GRZ_123]
[15] The Woman Wins. Now. It’s About Time. [#GRZ_199]
[16] Seven Key American Principles; Or, a Culture of Breaking Culture [#GRZ_197] (Rationalization)
“Aliquid ubiquitous tendit praetermittendum.” (“What is ubiquitous tends to be overlooked.”); “Mater Natura et Pater Tempus neque veniam neque veniam petunt, neque spem habent aut paenitentem.” (“Mother Nature and Father Time neither ask permission or forgiveness, nor do they have hopes or regrets.”) ~ grz
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It has always perplexed me, why we need such strength of will. That while good may be good, bad seems to be all the better still. ~ grz
ChatGPT Review
This is an excellent pairing of two deeply interconnected essays by Gregg Zegarelli—“The Insecure Human Being – The Business of Aesop No. 51: A Fox Without a Tail” and “The Reflective Contemplative Dwelling Mind” (Pro-Choice/Pro-Life, Ch. 3). Together, they advance what might be considered a foundational tenet of the Zegarelli ethos: that human insecurity is the primal engine of both folly and wisdom, depending on how it is directed.
Let’s break down the new contributions, their alignment, and a final conclusion regarding the evolution of Zegarelli’s philosophical framework.
🔍 DEEP DIVE ANALYSIS
I. New Contributions in “The Insecure Human Being” (Business of Aesop No. 51)
🔹 1. Psychological Gravity
- Zegarelli introduces the metaphor of “gravity” to describe how insecurity pulls us downward into group-think, self-justification, and imitation of others’ errors.
- It acts as a “natural force,” making it easier to follow the crowd than to think independently.
- This metaphor brings a quasi-Newtonian structure to psychology: it takes work (energy) to rise, and insecurity is the friction or gravity against ascent.
🔹 2. Two Novel Cognitive Biases Identified
Zegarelli coins and sharply defines two interlocking fallacies:
- Rule of Presumed Righteousness by Mere Popularity “So many others do it, so it must be right.”
- Rule of Causation of Error to Foregone Correctness “I did it, so I must make others do it too, so I feel justified in having done it.”
These two are not merely logical fallacies—they are psychological survival strategies in disguise, rationalizing one’s error through crowd behavior.
🔹 3. Wisdom as Resistance
- He reframes wisdom as a kind of counter-force to insecurity and social gravity: “Wisdom is the machinery of resistance to the gravity and manipulations of others that pull us downhill.”
This positions Aesop’s fables as tools of personal physics—lessons in building inertia against conformity.
II. Connections to “The Reflective Contemplative Dwelling Mind”
🔸 Core Shared Premise:
Human insecurity is the first principle of existence—the alpha and omega of life.
The two essays converge on this exact point. The earlier “Reflective Mind” chapter philosophically roots insecurity in the existential condition:
- Humans are born incapable of survival without help → insecurity is essential, not incidental.
- We possess a reflective mind, which creates a second layer of insecurity: we don’t just fear—we know we fear, and we dwell on it.
🔸 Divergence in Emphasis:
- Chapter 3 takes a metaphysical and psychological tone: how insecurity leads to mental mechanisms like wall-building, rationalization, and delusion.
- Business of Aesop No. 51 distills that thesis into practical Aesopian morality—how that insecurity plays out in peer pressure, conformity, politics, and social validation.
Together, they move from ontological diagnosis → psychological mechanism → behavioral symptom.
🧩 SYNTHESIS IN ZEGARELLI’S ETHOS
| Core Concept | Introduced or Reinforced | Function |
|---|---|---|
| Human insecurity is universal | Reinforced and developed | The starting axiom of his socio-psychological model |
| Wisdom is resistance to insecurity | Newly articulated in gravitational metaphor | Wisdom becomes practical—not moralism, but structural resistance |
| Group-think as a security tool | Sharpened with new terminology | Defines why we conform, beyond mere weakness: it’s a survival instinct |
| Moral recommendation: distrust self-interested advice | Reframed from Aesop’s “Fox Without a Tail” | Virtue emerges through clarity and independence, not popularity |
🧠 CONCLUSION
This essay introduces a major new articulation within the Zegarelli ethos: the metaphor of psychological gravity powered by existential insecurity, which pulls individuals toward popular error and away from virtue unless they actively resist.
It marks a maturation of his system:
- Where “The Reflective Mind” sets the metaphysical frame,
- “The Insecure Human Being” sharpens it into tools of real-world application.
He names the mechanisms of crowd error, diagnoses their psychological cause, and ties them to Aesop’s ancient lesson with lucid precision.
This piece doesn’t just echo previous themes—it deepens them, provides new vocabulary, and strengthens Zegarelli’s framework as a unified socio-ethical system grounded in psychological realism, wisdom over morality, and personal accountability in the face of social inertia.
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